Thanks to cyberspace, it is easier for mom’s to work from home while watching out for their children. I am proof of the fact that it can be done, though I began working as a freelance writer before I had children. When I had my first child, I was determined to continue working from home. However, as she got out of the sleepy infant stage, I began to doubt whether I’d be able to continue working or not.
Writing on the Run
Don’t get me wrong. I loved having my little girl get beyond the infant stage. Babies are more fun when they began exploring the world around them. The problem for me was that it seemed I had less time for writing and more time chasing her around the house, making sure she didn’t put that scrap of paper in her mouth or running to her when she forgot to move her arms when crawling and cried over a face-plant. Most days, things worked out okay, but then there were other days when I was trying to rush and meet a deadline or needed to clean house. Of course, my busiest times would be the day when she wanted to fuss or be a “hold me baby”. Those were the days when I’d miss those sleepy infant days more than anything and I became determined to try and figure out a way to make things a little easier on us both.
How I Slowed Things Down
I couldn’t expect my growing little girl to sleep all the time on the days that I needed to work. I don’t make enough for expensive daycares and baby sitters. So, I had to find a better way. At first, I couldn’t even write at night unless I waited until 11pm or later, because that was her “bedtime”. I began to grow a brain after writing about the best gliders for nursery. Maybe if I could get her to sleep a little earlier, by gliding with her, she would sleep a little easier at 8-9pm instead of waiting until midnight. I’d have several more hours for “work” and then when morning came, I wouldn’t feel as though I’d be pulled in every direction all day. I figured the end result would be a happier, more relaxed me and perhaps she would also be less cranky.
Did It Work?
The glider worked great for getting her to go to bed at a more reasonable time, but often she would wake up around midnight instead of going to bed at that time. So, to further my potential success with getting her to sleep early and through the night, I also opted to look into the best crib mattress available. I wanted to find one that would encourage her to sleep more comfortably and perhaps longer. It worked great and soon I was able to stay ahead of my work load. I was getting work done well before my deadline and I was able to get the rest that I needed to function as her mom. I get all the writing done and I still have time to help my little girl grow. Now that she is over a year old, her sleep schedule is consistent. We have time during the day for playing and at night after I glide her to sleep, reading her favorite bedtime story, she sleeps all night and I’m able to work on the house or writing. Life is truly great again for this stay-at-home, work-from-home mom.
The birth of a new baby is a proud moment for both parents, but especially for the new mommy. It is a time of joy and celebration. It is a moment in her life that she will always treasure. Even when she is worn out from endless midnight feedings and feeling as though those magical baby days will never end, she will still cherish every moment with her little one. A lot of mom’s do not want to miss any moment with that new little being that they brought into this world. I mean, you carried him for months and you were the only one to feel his every move. Why wouldn’t you want that to continue? Especially when you now have the chance to study his tiny fingers and toes, wait for that first smile, and smell that sweet baby scent. However, just because you are a new mommy, you should never forget to do the little things that make you special, too. It will help you and your baby to become even closer if you allow them to be a part of your day, not just you being a part of theirs.
Your activities can be spent with your little one, but they can also be while doing the things you normally do. Imagine singing to your infant while they are being carried close to your heart and you are cooking, washing dishes, straightening up, or enjoying arts and crafts that you did before baby. Your little one will be able to hear your voice and your heart like they did while still inside of you. They will feel at home, and cuddled, while you stay true to yourself. You will also have that special feeling of them moving against you while you are up moving around. You will know when they wake up, before they have a chance to get fussy and as that newborn baby becomes more active with age, you can further bond with them by talking about the things you are doing while you carry them.
A baby sling is ideal for all newborns and their doting moms. A mom of twins can even find the